Mindfulness in the Morning is More than Meditation By Louis Alloro

 
Mindfulness in the Morning is More than Meditation
By Louis Alloro

By Louis Alloro –
Alarm clock goes off

The alarm goes off in the morning. You may think:
(a) I didn’t get enough sleep last night.
(b) I am super excited to start the day.

Most people, whether they are conscious of it or not, think (a) “I didn’t get enough sleep last night” as they hit the snooze button for eight more minutes of sleep. In fact, it’s a thought like this that

causes an action of inaction which keeps you staying in bed, missing your workout, and being late to work.

Further, this thought of “not enough” is the first in a sle

 

 

 

w of negative, scarcity thoughts that continue all day long, usually ending with “I haven’t gotten enough done today” as they hit the pillow to go to sleep at night.

Sound familiar?

Psychologists call it negativity bias, the notion supported by research that we are wired to focus on potential threats, the “what if something bad will happen next” type of thought that has an adaptive purpose in the era of survival. (Think saber tooth tiger potentially around the next corner in the woods.)

But for those of us looking to thrive, we can learn to recondition our often default thinking onto a more positive path, thereby influencing our energy, immunity, sleep, and even success. (Think Olympic athlete as she prepares to go for the gold.)

Here’s where mindfulness comes in.

Mindfulness is “A mental state of calm awareness of the present moment, marked by acceptance, openness and curiosity toward your thoughts and feelings, rather than judgments of them,” according to the consensual definition.

When you recognize scarcity thinking, you may think:

(a) There you go again, you negative nelly.
(b) Isn’t that fascinating that I am so conditioned. Thankfully, I can rewire.

This awareness of the present moment is what mindfulness is all about. To that end, mindfulness is a way of being in the world. It’s not yet another way to improve yourself, not another item for your to-do list, and not just meditation. No one is exempt from doing the work to develop a mindfulness muscle. It takes practice.

Learn to knit

Dr. Ellen Langer, the first woman to be granted tenure in the Harvard Psychology Department, has been studying mindfulness since the 1970s. One book called Counterclockwise highlights some of her research that shows mindfulness can help us increase vitality and even reverse the aging process.
Langer suggests we take up a creative class that can bring out attention to detail as we learn a skill (like painting or knitting) which focuses our attention in a particular way and for a sustained period of time where we base one step on the previous step, thereby adapting what comes in the present moment to what will happen next.

She says, “When people are mindful, they are open to generating new ways of looking at the world and are not controlled by routines and habitual ways of observing . . . the simple process of actively drawing distinctions.”

Building mindfulness

Our lives are written so by routine. When was the last time you took a new route to work in the morning?

I encourage clients to take mindful walks. The next time you walk to the coffee shop, put your cellphone away and focus on feeling the full strides of your feet on the ground. Or, do the dishes mindfully. Instead of thinking about what you “should have done earlier” or what you “need to do next,” just be with the dish for a minute and feel the full sensations of warm water suds on your hands. These types of slight shifts in how you normally run on default mode will strengthen your mindfulness muscle.

Meditation

It’s true – with extensive research to back it up – that meditation is a great practice to build mindfulness for the same reasons it focuses our attention. If you think you don’t know how to meditate, you can learn and if you think you don’t have ten minutes a day to meditate, then you need twenty.
It’s a simple concept: we construct our reality (our experience of the world) in large part by where we put our limited attention. (How many of you feel a little Attention-Deficit-Disordered (ADD) these days?) More often than we recognize, we can make choices consciously and intentionally thereby getting more of what we want in life: more health, more wealth, specifically:

Decreased anxiety and stress
Increased heart-rate variability
Increased immune response
Activated prefrontal cortex, which allows our best, most creative thinking
Or, how about peace? Teacher Thich Nhat Hanh says, “Through mindfulness, we can learn to live in the present moment instead of in the past and in the future. Dwelling in the present moment is the only way to truly develop peace, both in one’s self and in the world.”

The world needs peace right now. The world needs you to increase your mindfulness. So, thank you for practicing and building your mindfulness muscle. (But don’t say “no problem” because that ain’t mindful, according to Joseph Amodeo.)

When the alarm goes off tomorrow morning, take a slow and low cleansing breath and remember to express gratitude for another day to be alive.

Author’s Note: Louis Alloro is a founding partner at The Flourishing Center and Director of the Philadelphia cohort of the 6-month Certificate in Applied Positive Psychology (CAPP) program that will begin in March. Other CAPP cohorts in NYC and San Francisco with an executive education model that allows you to travel in from out of town. For more information, visit Certificate in Applied Positive Psychology.
References
Amodeo, J. (2015). The 2 Words You Should Stop Using Right Now. Psychology Today series, Intimacy: A Path toward Spirituality. The 2 words are “no problem.”

Baumeister, Roy F.; Finkenauer, Catrin; Vohs, Kathleen D. (2001). Bad is stronger than good. Review of General Psychology 5 (4): 323–370.

Bishop, R., Lau, M., Shapiro, S.,Carlson, L., Anderson, N., Carmody, J., Segal, Z., Abbey, S., Speca, M., Velting, D. & Devins, G. (2004). Mindfulness: A Proposed Operational Definition. Clinical Psychology: Science and Practice V11 N3: 230-241.

Giovanni (no date). Scientific benefits of meditation: 76 things you might be missing out. Live and Dare blog. “There are over 3,000 scientific studies on the benefits of meditation, but I have not found any blog that compiles hundreds of researches into an organised article, so decided to fill in the gap.”

Langer, E. (2009). Counterclockwise: Mindful Health and the Power of Possibility. New York: Ballantine Books.

Talks by Thich Nhat Hanh can be found at the Thich Nhat Hanh Dharma Talks.

Hanh, T. N. (1987). Being Peace. New York: Parallax Press.

Photo Credit: via Compfight with Creative Commons license
Alarm clock courtesy of Szift

Knitting picture courtesy of Ed Britton
Meditation picture courtesy of Louis Alloro

This article first appeared on Positive Psychology News. To see the original article, click here. To comment on this article, click here.
Louis Alloro, M.Ed., MAPP ’08, is a cofounder of a 6-month Certificate in Applied Positive Psychology Program, Fellow at the Center for Advancement of Wellbeing at George Mason University, and founder of SOMO Leadership Labs, a community intervention. Web site. Full Bio.

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